“I think we're a bit too much obsessed with best practices that other people follow right and we underestimate what happens when you create best practices for your own life right”

Author your own best practices instead of imitating someone else's

Borrowed best practices fit borrowed lives. Spend the harder reflective work to write your own: how do you want to show up to a meeting, who do you help and when, what are your money rules, what are your shipping rules. Other people's frameworks are inputs; your synthesis is the output. The act of writing rules down is itself the reflective work that makes them stick.