“I'm not going to meet somebody at a party for the first time and just like ramble at them with like a diary of what I did that day... however you're authentic in your relationships in the real world you should be that way online as well... like getting to know people you know you have to have the conversations there's a lot of talking there's a lot of listening”

Treat social like a party — don't diary at strangers

Authenticity is not "share whatever you're feeling" — that's mistaking diary entries for connection. The party analogy: at a real-life party with new people, you don't open with "I had a really good cry last night." You introduce yourself, listen, contribute, and only get personal after relationships develop. Apply the same gradient online: lead with how you help, who you help, and why you're worth following before sharing the personal layer.