“and that led into basically allbody started off with just a mirror of what G I just had more control over it and I could I can say who was allow on it not allow on it”

Validate by mirroring an existing community

Don't build a marketplace and pray for users — clone a community that already exists, then add the layer of control they're missing (verification, moderation, trust). Hauling Buddies started as a mirror of his mom's Facebook group, just with rules the platform refused to enforce. The audience is pre-validated; you're selling them better infrastructure.