“I personally tune into those people who are where I hope to be one day super easy I focus on people living the life that I dream of which means I often skip advice from others even though they might be hugely successful... I look up to those who have similar limits and constraints on their lives as the limits and constraints that I want for myself”

Follow founders whose life shape matches yours — skip the rest, even if they're famous

Most founder advice is a poor fit because the advisor's life shape doesn't match yours. A VC-funded unicorn founder optimized for blitzscaling — their tactics will burn you if you want family time and slow growth. Curate your input by life shape, not status: only consume advice from founders whose calendar, cash-flow, family setup, and pace look like what you want yours to look like in 5 years. Unsubscribe from the rest, no matter how famous.